How to Feng Shui Your Bedroom: Dos and Don’ts
Introduction
Hey there, I have come up with some fresh tips, ideas, dos, and don’ts about how to Feng Shui your bedroom. If someone says to you, “Oh, Feng Shui has helped me declutter my bedroom,” you might not immediately celebrate with them. But let’s shoulder the emotion for a minute and look at what Feng Shui is and how you can utilize it to create a bedroom that is calm, comfortable, and conducive to deep sleep.
Firstly, let me explain the concept: Feng Shui, often misinterpreted as just an aesthetic practice, is about creating a harmonious environment that enhances the flow of energy (Qi) in your space. If you’re aspiring to have some of that magic in your bedroom, then read on.
Understanding the Basics of Feng Shui
The Concept of Qi
Qi is the energy flow optimized by Feng Shui. Imagine Qi as the atmosphere of the bedroom. You want to make that atmosphere as smooth and flowy as possible, not tripping over stray socks or lamps, and not sucked in by the black hole of the laptop.
The Bagua Map: Your Guiding Compass
The Bagua Map is essentially your Feng Shui blueprint that allows you to map out the various sectors of your space that relate to each life aspect. For example, your bedroom might not only be where you snooze but it could also be the source of your love life or creativity.
The Dos of Bedroom Feng Shui
Position Your Bed for Optimal Energy
The Command Position: This sounds martial rather than mystical, but it really just means that you position your bed so you can see the door without being directly in line with it. You want to feel safe and in control of your space.
Choose Your Colors Wisely
Color influences mood: A sense of harmony in a bedroom can be achieved with cerebration-calming shades—soft blues, greens, and lavenders. These are your friends for sleep.
Let the Air Flow
A lot of people tend to think that as long as they have nice furniture and an internet connection, it’ll be fine, but having good air—by any means, such as opening a window or buying an air purifier—is very important. Fresh air equals fresh Qi.
Incorporate Nature
An additional plant or two (or even natural images) will improve the natural energy flow of the space. Not too many, though, or you might get a bit too much of the sociable Fire energy: who needs a jungle?
Mirror Placement Matters
Mirrors take energy, so if you have to use one, they must be placed carefully to make sure the bouncing energy doesn’t keep sleep seeping away from you. Never place a mirror across from the bed, which will bounce energy around like a pinball machine when you toss and turn.
The Don’ts of Bedroom Feng Shui
Avoid Clutter at All Costs
Keep the Qi flowing by keeping your bedroom free of clutter. A clutter-free space promotes calm and positive energy flow.
Electronic Devices: The Energy Zappers
The energy put out by electronics disturbs the flow of Qi, and otherwise, your sleep is messed up. Try to remove electronics from the bedroom or place them as far as possible from the bed.
Wrong Art Choices
If you like a piece of art, it may energize the space or remind you of a happy feeling. If you don’t, it can elicit unease.
The Trouble with Water Features
Because water activates the trinity, it is best kept out of the bedroom since it can intensify the space’s energies. Water creates movement and sound, which will agitate your Qi.
Avoid Sharp Angles Pointing at You
Sharp angles (also known as ‘poison arrows’) can project negative energy toward you. Don’t let any of these point directly toward your bed.
Enhancing Your Bedroom’s Feng Shui
The Role of Lighting
Soft, hygge lighting can perk a room up—think dimmers or candles (please be careful).
Selecting the Right Decor
Your decor should evoke what you want to invite in. Pick things you love looking at because they make you feel good.
The Importance of Personal Space
Your bedroom is your space and it should represent you and you alone. You get the opportunity to stay yourself, stay as relaxed, cheeky, crazy, romantic, sexy, confident, quiet, intellectual, old-fashioned, flamboyant, funny, scary, or anything else you happen to be, in one place.
Troubleshooting Common Feng Shui Issues
Solutions for Small Spaces
Too small? Don’t stress—maximize space and minimize clutter with some clever storage.
Dealing with Unavoidable Problem Areas
There’s a column that’s just not working? There’s a corner that’s way too sharp? Get some plants that will soften the angles. Put up a mirror to deflect the energy.
Bringing It All Together: A Feng Shui Bedroom Makeover
Feng Shui-ing your bedroom isn’t about instantly doing it all—instead, work with what feels most doable for you and your space, and make changes as you go. If something works for you, you’ve ‘done it right’.
Colors and Elements
Feng Shui emphasizes the use of specific colors and elements to create balance.
- Earth tones: Promote stability and grounding.
- Wood elements: Enhance growth and vitality.
- Lighting: Use soft, diffused lighting to create a cozy atmosphere.
- Mirrors: Be mindful of placement to avoid reflecting negative energy.
- Art and Decor: Choose items that evoke positive emotions and balance.
Conclusion
While it may seem daunting to recreate a Feng Shui-ed bedroom, remember that it’s about making small tweaks to make your space a bit more comfortable and uplifting. Listen and trust your intuition, as this is your room after all. Start with the fundamentals and build up from there, and you will definitely have a room that looks good and feels good.
FAQs
How do I do this type of Feng Shui on a budget?
While you certainly can spend tons of money on Feng Shui supplies, it’s more about placement and intention than dollar bills. Use what you have and do your best to reduce clutter and position things intentionally.
Should you put a TV in your bedroom?
It’s not good Feng Shui. Electronics should be kept out of the bedroom as they can cause disruption to energy flow and your sleep cycle. If you do want a TV, enclose it in a cabinet or cover it up at night.
What if the bedroom is in the basement?
As much as possible, make use of lighting and air. Use lamps and air conditioners/purifiers to increase the energy of the atmosphere.
Can I use fake plants for Feng Shui?
While real plants are best as they have energy and life, a fake one can be used too to enhance the ambiance if you cannot keep a real one yourself.
What does Feng Shui say about designing a room shared by two people?
Be evenhanded. Where possible, aim for symmetry and incorporate objects that both people will enjoy alike.
By following these guidelines, you can create a bedroom that not only looks beautiful but also feels harmonious and peaceful. Happy decorating!
